How to win your wife's heart (Part-10)

160

views


To read the previous part of this story,click here.

The Epidemic Of Sins
Sins and forbidden actions are considered to be one of the most serious causes of marriage problems and its spread among Muslims. Allah (SWT) as well as the people attach no important to a sinner.

Ibnul Qayyim said: "Among the punishments originated from sins is that they revoke the blessings and cause curses. The servant of Allah Allah (SWT) loses Allair's blessing by a sin, and is inflicted by a curse when he commits a sin".

And among die punishments inflicted on a sinner: He loses his rank, position and dignity towards Allah and His servants, because the most revered person to Allah (SWT) is the one who fears Him most, the closest one to Him is die one who obeys Him in everything, and the position of a servant is established by his submission to Allah's commands. If he disobeys Allah's commands, he will be dropped in His estimation and Allah will also drop him in His servants estimation. Consequently, he will live among them in a bad predicament, underestimated, miserable, unrespected and unhappy.

Some wives often complain about their husbands' sudden change. They reminisce the sweet moments they passed and the love they used to share together; but, now, they do not care anymore about them nor about the children.

Sheikh Ahmad Al-Qattaan said: "The wife is the reason behind her husband's sudden change, she should ask herself and read Allah's saying in the Qu'ran:

Verily! Allah will not change the goodcondition of a people as long as they do not change there state of good themselves [Ar-Raad:11]

Perhaps, it is because either she or her husband has committed a sin.

The reasons behind them arriage problems:
The worst is abandoning prayers and other Islamic obligations such as Zakat,fasting and pilgrimage.
1. The wife's delay to take a bath so as to keep her hair done,
2. Not encouraging their daughters to Wear Hijaab when they reach the age of puberty .
3. The breaking of relations.
4. Hiding the children's wrong doings from their father.
5. Backbiting
6. Usury
7. The watching of dirty movies ahd listening to music
8. Employing a maid and car driver unnecessarily.
9. Making fun of religious people and of Islam
10. Smoking and drinking intoxicant.
11. Disobeying the parents.

To read the next part of this story,click here.

How to win your wife's heart - Ibraahim Ibn Saaleh al-Mahmud

Sharing is caring. Please spread the story around your friend and show your love to us! May Allah (swt) bless us, forgive us and give us more rewards.


The Muslim Home (Part-18)

To read the previous part of this story, click here.  If people of faith enter your home, it will increase in light (Noor), and will bring many benefits because of...

Bad Friends Hurt More

A sick stag was lying down in a quiet comer of its pasture-ground. His companions came in great numbers to inquire after his health, and each one helped himself to...

Hazrat Musa and Hazrat Haroon (A) (Part-10)

To read the previous part of this story, click here.Musa (A) as MessengerIt is Allah's great favour that Musa (A) went to fetch fire and there he found prophet hood...

-Ahadith-

"He is not one of us who is not affectionate to the little ones, and does nor respect the old; and he is nor of us, who does not enjoin...

Surah An-Naba (Tafseer-ul-Maariful Quran), Part-05

To read the previous part, click hereجَزَاءً وِفَاقًا (this being a recompense in full accord [with their deeds].....78:26). The punishment given to them in Hell will be based on justice...

Sura Al-Fajr (Tafseer-ul-Maariful Quran), Part-05

To read the previous part, click hereوَتَأْكُلُونَ التُّرَاثَ أَكْلًا لَّمًّا (And you devour the inheritance with a sweeping gulp...89:19). The word lamm means to 'gather, amass, concentrate the thing'. This...

Hazrat Yusuf (A) (Part-9)

To read the previous part of this story, click here.The King's DreamWhile Nabi Yusuf (A) was still in prison it so happened that the king of Egypt also saw a...